Good Tidings to You

Well, this week has been a good week. At work, I have been doing more IT stuff than I have programming. We've bought a bunch of new computers and have been doing what we can to set them up and get everything in order. The business is growing from a small business to a medium business and so the computer infrastructure needs to do the same. I enjoy what I do, but I must admit, I know very little about it. I can only hope I'm doing everything correctly. Rochelle has been VERY busy this week.
She had a paper due on Tuesday that she underestimated and ended up staying up until the wee hours of the morning. I tried to stay up with her, but sacked out around 2. She was up another hour before she went to bed. And then she had to get up bright and early in the morning. She only got three hours of sleep. But she got up and went to class and did her assignments, and even went to institute (which we do for our calling) without a word of complaint. I on the other hand got just a little more sleep than she did, and grumbled about everything. ;-) She is just now catching up on her sleep. I came home and found her awake, but dead tired, and told her to take a nap. She didn't fight that to hard. I'm supposed to wake her up in a bit and then we are going to go running. I don't know how she does it. I just know that I couldn't. She's not alone, I know. Many of you reading this are probably thinking you wouldn't mind taking a nap right now. I don't blame you. My hat's off to each of you. --Please don't mind the messy hair.
On another note--you Taylor family members... it's coming up on Christmas time, and Rochelle and I are wondering what Christmas activities you all would like to be involved in. Here are our ideas, and you can tell me what you think.

Rochelle's family traditionally has a night where everyone gets together and sings Christmas music together. There's a bit of a "talent show" for them, but that isn't necessary if we don't want to do that. The point of it all for them is to simply enjoy the Holiday music together. Would you all be interested?

We were also thinking that it might be fun to go up to temple square the day after Thanksgiving when they turn on the lights for the first time. I think we are planning on going, but if any of you would like to join, I think the more the merrier.

We are also thinking that for all of you who have little ones and need some time to shop or just get away for a bit, Rochelle and I would be happy to come over and tend the kids for an evening to allow you to do that (one family at a time of course). We've been thinking about some fun Christmas activities that we could do with the kids while we are there. If you would like that, the offer is on the table.

I think those are the ideas that we have discussed thus far. I'm sure more are to come. And most of them have come from Rochelle. Hope you all have a good evening!
Love ya!
BJ

A day in the life of a super-hero

Ok, so I'm not much of a super-hero, but I can pretend. Rochelle and I have had a quiet Sunday. Church didn't start until 1:30, and we just finished with dinner of my own make. Good ol' fried rice. Learned how to do it in the mission field, and it has served me well as a "quick fixer". I think we are planning on going to bed early tonight, getting a good-night's sleep in, and getting up in the morning to go exercise. We've been going to the Provo Rec. Center this past week for our exercise as Rochelle mentioned. We are going to try to do that more. It has been good. We've enjoyed the morning time together, and the exercise that we have been getting. It has also forced me to go to bed earlier. I'm typically a night owl, but lately, going to bed around 10 pm sounds really good to me. We have been running together, and I have been playing racquetball with Charles, and some co-workers. I have been constantly sore since I have started, but it has helped me feel better during the week. I'm not quite used to my 8-hour work days yet. They seem awfully long sometimes, but the chance to exercise before I go to work helps me feel like I do something more with my life than sit in a cubical, just barely big enough for me to stretch out my legs. I'm also trying to avoid the "geek physique," you know... the skinny arms and legs, and the big ol' round belly-- usually full of pizza and soda. So... that represents one goal I have in my life that I'm working on. Some other goals that I would like to work on need some attention too. One other goal I have is to get to the temple more often. I should have more time now than I used to, and so temple attendance needs to go up. I also need to start reading more. And that includes all types of reading. Reading for fun, reading for study, and reading to keep up with the times. I keep waiting for some poor desperate scout to come around and offer us a deal on the Daily Herald, so I can say "Yes! I want a paper!" and make his day. It seems like when I was in school, we had one every so often come by and ask, but now that I'm done, we don't see him anymore. Well, I suppose that is fine. I can ready most everything I'm interested in on the internet anyways. But having a paper on your door step is a good reminder that you haven't heard what's happened lately. Rochelle and I are both reading Eragon after mom went and bought herself a copy, and put it into our hands. I'd also like to re-read some of my sociology books that I never got to spend quite as much time in as I would have liked when I was going through the course. Some of them were quite good, but we would have 100 page assignments that I would never get through. I've also been looking at Jesus The Christ lately and thinking... "dare I go at it again?" I read it on my mission, and I remember enjoying it, but I don't remember much else about it anymore, except that it was very slow reading, and a very thick book. I think if I start that one again sometime soon, I'll finish it sometime around my birthday in 2012. ;-)
By the way, the picture is just one that we took up at temple square a couple of months ago. The background was just sky, and didn't turn out so well, and so I made it green.
Well, have a happy Sabbath everyone, and I hope you are all doing well.
BJ

Well, I can't believe that it is Thursday already! This week has just zoomed on by. On Sunday, we woke up early, not remembering daylight savings, and then had an "extra" hour before church. BJ had some fun with his camera, and he took some pictures of us with his remote. Here is one of them:
On Sunday night, BJ, Marissa, and I went up to visit Darla, Doug, and their family (Darla is our cousin) and to have dinner with them. We really enjoyed visiting and playing games with all of them.
BJ and I started running/ working out at the rec center this week (Monday is the first time we have gone together). We are going to be going early in the morning before work/ class. I am hoping to run a half marathon this spring with Marissa and several of my friends from nursing classes, so it's time to get exercising! BJ has also been going there a few times a week to play raquetball with various different people, co-workers and friends.
On Tuesday, we were lucky enough to hear from President Hinckley at our devotional! We had a hard time getting seats, and by the time devotional started, there was hardly a free seat left, even in the bleachers behind the stand. President Hinckley's appearance wasn't really announced way ahead of time, for security purposes, I assume, but enough people found out--it was completely packed. His address was a series of vignettes and short stories/ experiences that he told us had shaped his life and made him into the person he is now. Some of the stories were very somber, and some were lighthearted. He encouraged us to write down things that make impressions upon us, help us to grow, etc. and to read over those things often. I enjoyed everything he said, and was especially impressed with two things. First, the Spirit that accompanies our prophet. As he entered the room, a feeling of reverence and love filled the room so strongly! Even with nearly 23,000 people in the room, you could practically hear President Hinckley's footsteps as he walked in. This spirit remained in the room for the whole devotional. Second, I was impressed with President Hinckley's ablility to connect and communicate with his audience. Not only were his comments very poignant, but I think most people felt that his comments were applicable to them. We were all hanging on every word. As he finished speaking, I found myself wishing that it wouldn't end! The devotional finished, and as he left, he turned and waved in all directions to the students. It was a very sweet moment. Everybody quietly and with the utmost respect, waved back! I felt so blessed to have been in the presence of a latter- day prophet. My outlook was changed, and I felt uplifted, able to bear the many hours of work and school ahead of me that day.
I only worked 10 hours instead of 12 hours today in clinical... we have been getting out early because we have more clinical hours than all the groups at other hospitals (since we have little driving time). During the next two weeks I will be in the OR watching surgeries. I really have little idea of what to expect. It should be exciting though.
There's not too much else to report... BJ and I are both reading a book that most of you have probably already read, and which has been very highly recommended to us- Eragon. I haven't gotten that far into it, but I am impressed with the creativity and rich descriptions this very young author uses! I wish I had more time to read, but alas! There is reading, and midterms, and research papers, and case studies- all waiting to be done... Well, such is life!

Count your many blessings...

So, Rochelle last blogged on Thursday when she was feeling quite grandiose. Then Friday hit, and she didn't want to get out of bed. In fact her whole weekend has been full of ups and downs. Feeling better and then feeling worse. I'm not sure that there is a pattern other than we had prayed that she would be able to get through her clinical rotation on Thursday. We were fairly specific in our prayers, and Heavenly Father was just as specific in His blessings. But we still feel blessed. I count myself lucky to have someone to take care of, and the health and ability to do so. I feel like we have been very blessed as a couple. I think back to when I met Rochelle, and how I was making $7 an hour fixing machines at BYU. Shortly thereafter I get a call out of nowhere asking me to come in for an interview. I wasn't even looking for a job at the time. I put out my application in August, and here is was February and I had an interview. Well, considering how much I loved fixing those smelly machines, I interviewed, and got a job. Little did I know, but that was the first blessing I had received so I could better take care of my dear soon to be wife. I have no need of going into detail on every blessing we've received for the last two years we have been married, but I feel like they have been many. And I have noticed something in common with many of them. With every blessing I receive, I have been better able to serve Rochelle or some other person who is in need. It has been an eye opening experience for me. It has made me consider things in a new light. What are blessings for? I have been taught ever since I was old enough to pass the sacrament that the priesthood was given to man for the serving of others. I have never supposed though, that in reality, every blessing given to us is an opportunity to serve others. And in fact, many of the challenges we face, and the trials we meet are in fact an opportunity for others to serve. For example, read the following verse: "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." Most of my life, when I read this verse, I get out of it one point, and one point only. That the ultimate demonstration of love is to give up your life for another. But it never occurred to me what trials the friends were going through. It seems to me that "his friends" were in serious trouble. It does not say whether they were in trouble because they put themselves there or by no fault of their own. But were it not for the sacrifice of another, they would soon perish. But because of their "trial" and the sacrifice of the one, blessings were poured out on all. The one who laid down his life would be blessed in heaven for his great act of service and love. The others would be blessed by feeling so loved, and cared for by another. They would appreciate their lives more, and be more willing to serve others in the future. They would have learned a great lesson. And so it is with us. We have trials so that the Savior can save us. He has already laid down His life for our own. He has already made the ultimate sacrifice of love. We have our trials so we can learn to seek Him out and trust in Him. Our trials also offer others a chance to emulate Him. Your trials may give me a chance to serve you. So when it comes down to it, everything -- both blessings and trials -- give us a chance to serve and be served, to love and be loved, and our testimonies of the Savior and His sacrifice grow regardless of which side of the service we are on. Anyways, these are the thoughts that came to me today. I hope you all had a good Sabbath.
Love you all.
BJ

Sickies

BJ and I have been sick! I felt like I was coming down with the flu earlier this week, and then it turned into a bad cold. BJ has been taking care of me... now I'm mostly better, and he is feeling more down, so it's my turn to take care of him now, I guess! That's ok- he takes such good care of me- he would make a good nurse! - as long as no blood is involved!
Today I worked in IV therapy. That is where people come to get IV hydration, blood transfusions, immunoglobulins, antibiotic therapy, and other treatments on an outpatient basis, and also the nurses are specially trained to do IV services on patients who are in the hospital. Those might include inserting PICC lines (which I actually got to help with today!!! -not the actual insertion, but as the "float") or doing "therapeutic phlebotomy". I would explain these things more, but I know that some of you don't want to know! So, just ask me when you see me, and I will tell you more about it! (A note to Suzanne: I have an answer to your question about units of blood. Remind me to tell you about it!!)
Another exciting thing has happened- we got a breadmaker! Danielle and Kirk (BJ's sister and her husband) have graciously allowed us to use theirs since they dont use it. We couldn't be more thrilled... it has been something that we have wanted for a long time, and now we can easily have fresh bread!
Something else this week was my mom's birthday. I got to talk to her on the phone, but I was sad I couldn't see her and give her a hug! My sister Marissa and I decided to actually make her a present together this year (in memory of our younger years, I guess) so we spent a couple of afternoons together working on it. It took longer to make than we thought. Hopefully it has arrived by now.
Now I have to go get ready for our dinner with BJ's parents and Bobbie and Gary (aunt and uncle). Should be fun!

Things previously mentioned and not expounded upon

As BJ hinted, we celebrated his birthday on Friday instead of Thursday because I was gone all day Thursday. At lunch time, we went to Gandalfos for sandwiches, and to a camera store for some accessories to go with BJ's new digital camera. We ate dinner at the Macaroni Grill, which was good, and we invited Charles and Marissa (Marissa couldn't come because she had to work late that night)over for birthday cake and BJ opening his presents. BJ got some nice new dress shirts & ties, two- way radios, a signed and framed Del Parson painting (actually a print), and a paper shredder, among other things. It was a fun day.
I have been working at the hospital on various floors and with various nurses. So far, it has been a really valuable experience, and I have been lucky enough to be paired with nurses who are happy to have students follow them around/ learn from them. Some days have been kind of slow, but other days, like last week, were so busy that the only time I ever sat down during my 12 hour shift was during my 30- minute lunch! I have had interesting patients... one has even proposed to me! That was... exciting... kind of different.
We have also been wanting to improve our Emergency Preparedness plans. We decided what we would do in the case of a natural disaster, etc. where we would meet, what channel to use on our 2- way radios, and we are planning to prepare a couple of backpacks with supplies in them that we are going to keep in our cars. We have a little food storage, and we want to get more, and learn how to make things without certain ingredients- like perishable foods etc.

Last week we drove up the canyon with BJ's parents, his sister Danielle & her family, and my sister Marissa. We took pictures in the fall leaves, shown above, and enjoyed the beautiful scenery. The pictures are of Marissa, me and Kimmy, and there's one of just Marissa and I. Although temperatures had previously been quite chilly, that afternoon turned out to be very warm... almost too warm. Nevertheless, we all enjoyed getting away from the city and and being so close to the mountains, trees, and streams.

Mom has a new laptop...

...and I'm writing this blog on it. It's a nice laptop. It has a nice big screen (wide) and isn't very heavy. I like it. And it is much more comfortable to work on it while sitting on the couch than it is to sit in that hard chair and work on their other computer. ;-)

It's Saturday night, and I'm pooped. I don't know why I'm tired, but I am. I haven't worked particularly hard this week. I haven't done anything particularly extrenuous. I have done very little out of the norm. I'm fairly certain that anyone who is reading this probably has had a much busier week than I have, but I'm still tired. Maybe it's because I have time to rest now, that my body has decided that it needs to catch up on rest. I don't know... but I do know that I probably should get some exercise. Otherwise I'm going to end up like most programmers and techies (no offence to those of you who are...), and live on pizza, soda, and have a beer belly. Yes, even now I can begin to see the buldge. Ok, so I haven't got much of one, but I don't want one either. I think I need to start exercising. I'm going to try to get my coworkers to join me in that too. I've heard that some of them play racquetball, and I'm going to see if that is true. ;-) Anyways, I want to get them to go play basketball and whatever else they would do to get some exercise. I think that would help my energy level. Rochelle has been quite busy lately... she has been working and homeworking and nursing like mad and has nearly gone mad trying to do it all. But she has gotten much of it done, and is feeling a little less stressed now.

Anyways, I'm going to go to sleep now... goodnight!
BJ

One very tired BJ and Rochelle

This week thus far has been a doozie. On Monday, I worked for 10 hours. On Tuesday I worked for 16 hours, and today, 7. I'm still recovering from yesterday. Rochelle on the other hand has had to deal with my absence. And now that my schedule is going back to normal, she gets to go to the hospital tomorrow for 12 and a half hours. We decided that this probably wasn't the best way to spend my birthday, and so we are going to celebrate on Friday instead. That way, we can have a little more time together, and a little more flexibility to do what we want. One thing about working for a web site company is that when they decide to update their online software, they nearly always need to do large updates at night when the least amount of people are using it. Therefore, we stay up quite late to work on it. I worked until 2 am, while some of my collegues stayed up until 4 and 6. Quite the day. I do alright staying up late. I can work well into the night, but doing so works on me for the next couple of days. Rochelle stayed up late last night waiting for me and so she is tired too. However we were able to sleep in this morning which was nice.

Conference is coming up. This is the traditional time for Rochelle and I to go take pictures of the fall leaves. It is a beautiful season. I love how the mountains turn red. And if you watch the sunset in the evening, the mountians look like they are on fire. Rochelle's red hair does well in pictures with those surroundings. Her coloring fits right in. I think Saturday or Sunday we are going to go do that. I'm not sure which day, but at would be fun. I think Mom and Dad are taking me out to lunch on Saturday for my birthday so it may be Sunday that we go. Or maybe we'll just have to go on Monday. We'll see.
BJ

A cornucopia of wonderful things

This has got to be one of my favorite words. Hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobia. I started to sing it to the tune of Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious. I think the latter is one syllable longer than the former. What does it mean? Well, ironically enough… it means "the fear of long words". I can just imagine some poor soul being told he has Hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobia. It would be a nightmare experience for anybody with the phobia. I think it’s hilarious. Well, back to normal life. Rochelle and I have been released from our former calling of Gospel Doctrine teachers. We really enjoyed that calling, and are sad to let it go, but that’s life in student wards. The plus side is that most callings that you don’t enjoy likewise don’t stay around very long. Now we have the calling of institute representatives. What does that mean? We don’t fully know, but likely little more than just going to institute and making announcements in our ward. It’s a calling that I have had before, and it was never my favorite calling, but if the Lord wants us there, there we will be. I have always loved teaching, and so it was sad to say goodbye to that calling. Especially considering that we just bought some chalk and an eraser to have for ourselves so we no longer have to rely on the unreliable ward librarians for that. Oh well. Such is life. I’m sure we will be teachers again some day. However, it is entirely possible that we may never have the opportunity to teach together like we did the past year. That was a singular experience, and one that I thoroughly enjoyed. Rochelle, and I made a great team, even if I do say so myself. Yesterday we went on a bit of a shopping splurge. I went to the grocery store, and saw some "decorative gourds". I brought them home, and Rochelle looked at me and wondered what they were. When I explained that they were for decoration, she decided that she needed to arrange them. She tried to do so with the bowls that we have, but they were wholly insufficient. So we went out and bought ourselves a cornucopia. I’ve always wanted a cornucopia. Yes, I know I’m a bit odd, but I always thought that they were the essence of fall and Thanksgiving time. But we didn’t stop with the cornucopia. We also bought some plastic fruit and veggies to go with the decorative gourds that we already had. And then we bought a pretty candle, candle holder, and potpourri to go with the decorations so that our unsmelly decorations might have a more pleasant smell to go with them. The result is a very decorative center piece for our table that makes the apartment smell nice. We also bought a berry wreath for our front door. I have to say, I love the seasons. I even bought a spaghetti squash yesterday, and cooked it. I think I under cooked it unfortunately, and so it wasn’t quite as good as we had hoped it would be. Rochelle isn’t big on new foods and so she only had a bite or two, but I had a small serving of it and it wasn’t bad. Just a little too crunchy. I’ll probably try it again some day… but I’ll give Rochelle a little time before I try to feed it to her a second time. I also bought a lot of fruits and veggies for our snacking on. It’s amazing all the variety of foods that are available in the fall. I love it. Fall didn’t used to be a favorite season of mine, because it meant that winter was coming on, and that the summer was over. But I think I’m starting to appreciate it a lot more now. All of the foods, all of the colors in the mountains, the crisp air... this is a nice season. It seems that there is a bright side to everything if you are looking for it.

BJ

I'm Ba-aack!

What a week! Where to begin?! I'll start with last Saturday... It all started out with me going to my Professional Rescuer CRP/AED class, which is required yearly for nursing students. BJ called me and said he was going to go test drive a car. To make a long story short, when I finished my class, we went and... bought the car! For those of you who haven't seen it, here is the picture of our new car! We decided not to get a Yaris... helped along by the complete lack of Yaris' to be had... and we got its cousin, the Scion xA. A similar car, but it has 4 doors, and looks a little different. But it still has good gas mileage, and it has a manual transmission. I had a manual in highschool, so I knew how to drive it, and BJ has had a little experience driving one (he learned on my car, on our honeymoon, and he had driven a few other people's cars) but in his own words, "I'm still learning!" Ha ha...! Actually he is improving really quickly. BJ's favorite thing about our new car is that it has "really cool" cupholder illumination. There are about 5 different colors, and there is a blue lamp that lights up the floor. As far as I can tell, there is no useful purpose for these features, but BJ insists that it is awesome, and I can't really disagree.
I had my first clinical at UVRMC this week. It was an 8-hour shift instead of the 12-hour shift it will be starting next week! Mostly we were just supposed to shaddow our nurse, but I got to help do/ watch some cool things. I decided I am going to have to find some more comfortable shoes if I dont want my feet to be in a world of pain after 5 hours.
The rest of my classes are (for the most part) on Tuesdays and Wednesdays. I have a few other classes throughout the week, including the aerobics class I am taking with Marissa! I am really enjoying it. They give you a great cardio workout. At the end of class, if you are working it hard enough, you can hardly lift your arms. It's awesome, and most people work out really hard because everyone else can see them, and no one wants to look like a slacker!
Next week we are excited to celebrate BJ's birthday! You can ask him how old he is going to be! ;) Or maybe you should ask me, because he asks me too! We'll have to let you know how that goes/ what we decide to do. I can't write too much right now, because he will read this!
Today's just a normal Saturday- grocery shopping, filling up the tanks, cleaning, laundry, etc. Marissa has been kept pretty busy these last couple of days. She has already worked at 2 banquets, and she is putting in about 10 hours today at one of the banquets at the football game. Luckily, it has warmed up a bit from yesterday, although I don't know if she has to spend too much time outside.
Anyway, I hope everyone is enjoying the weekend, and we'll update soon!

Our Sabbatical

Rochelle is taking a sabbatical. Please forgive her absence. Unfortunately for you, BJ is not on sabbatical as well. ;-) As many of you may know, Rochelle and I are looking to get a new car. We are looking at the Toyota Yaris.Nobody has one for us to test drive, but we will probably go get one anyway. We will probably have to put $500 down on the car we want before the dealer even has it for us to look at. That’s how one goes about buying a Yaris right now. They don’t stay around very long. They get a shipment of them, and then they are gone within the next day or two. We like the Yaris because it is quite cheap, and it is quite frugal on the gas. We can expect around 40 mpg on the highway. We could probably make it to Rochelle’s house from our own on two tanks of gas. With gas prices going up, that’s something we’ll be grateful for. It will make road trips possible. Our current car we don’t trust enough to take on long trips without any help near by. And maybe in a year or so, we will have enough vacation time to go on a road trip. Now I know a Yaris is no car to go 4-wheeling in, but we would also like to go camping. We happened by a sporting goods store the other day, and they had a 3 man tent on sale that we bought. And thanks to Rochelle’s parents, we have also been endowed with sleeping bags. So we have the basic necessities for camping now. I’ve thought about going this fall. If we do, we’ll have to bundle up, because it will be cold up there, but it would be nice to get away from it all for a bit. Even for just a night would be fun. (Hopefully, in a new car!) Anyways, I think we’ve heard enough from me for the time being. I hope you all have had (or are having) a fabulous day.

Take care all,

BJ

The new world is here...

... and it is much like the old one. Now that I am graduated, I still don't seem to find a lot of time to do extra things. I seemed to be able to find more time to blog before, for example, than I do now. But that may change. As Rochelle gets more into her schooling, I may find that there is more time where I don't know what to do with myself. I think right now we are still catching up from the many things that have been going on. Just after I graduated, Rochelle's family came for a visit. They were here for over a week, and we spent most of our free time with them. We, of course, enjoyed their visit and were very happy to see them, but our "To do" list got quite long. And before they were even gone, my beloved grandparents (mother's side) came for a visit. They were only here for a little more than a weekend, and so I wanted to be with them as much as possible. I miss being able to see them for a week every summer like I used to when I was growing up. By the time they went home, Rochelle and I had about 3 weeks of laundry to do, and lots of little errands that had to get done. Since I am working every day until around 5:30, that’s when we start running our errands and doing laundry. And so I haven’t hardly sat down at this computer for quite a while, and therefore haven’t spent a moment checking email or blogging.

Briefly, (Rochelle just told me it was time to go to bed) work has been good lately. I have been doing odd things for them here and there. I have been useful for them, but not as useful as I’d like to be. But I am still just a new employee. It will take me time to get engrained into their processes. Something that I’m sure I’ll talk about more in future blogs.

Ah well, I guess I better go to bed. Have a good night all.

BJ

BJ is gwaduated

This was written to a few friends and family on the day I graduated, August 8th:

Hey All,
Some of you I just saw today, others of you I haven't heard from in a
while. I hope you are all doing well, and I thought I'd just drop a
note to let you know that today I graduated. Hurray! …Applause…
Thank you, thank you. Now I hope I didn't startle any of you too
much, but yes, it seems that I finally got there. I graduated in
Sociology with no official minor, but a slew of computer science
classes under my belt. (Computer Science doesn't offer any minors.)
Now where to from here? Well, for now, I go to work. I recently got
a new job with Property Solutions, as their one and only Quality
Assurance Engineer. Really, I can kinda have any title I want, and so
I have also thought of Director of Quality Assurance, or
Vice-President of Quality Assurance, but really I'm just directing
myself for now, so the titles are just that… titles. I started with
them two weeks ago, and I'm enjoying my time there. They are a new
business, less than 20 people, but they seem to be constantly hiring
so they seem to be growing right now. In a few years, when the time
is right, I will head back to school to get an MBA so I can have
another title under my belt. They like to have students with
experience, and so it really isn't feasible to go now. Kirk and Andy
(brothers in law) both recently graduated from the MBA, and Ryan
(brother) did it years ago with his law degree. I'm starting to feel
left out. Rochelle is continuing in her nursing school. She has one
semester down and 4 to go (or 2 years). She will be a fantastic
nurse. She is currently TAing for a class, and helping teachers do
research.
Anyways, we have a new web page up… and it IS new. Incomplete and
unfinished, but still worthy of your browsing I hope. Please visit it
at http://somedayhappened.net Inside you will find pictures and a
blog, both of which will be updated soon. For those who would like to
log in, just send us an email, and we will send you an email that will
let you create your own account. Currently logging in allows you to
add recipes to the recipe page, and potentially see family birthdays
when the page is working right (also soon to be redone). We hope to
be expanding the web page soon with my new found free time, so check
back from time to time, and feel free to drop us a line.
Take care all,
BJ

Moving on

Well, it has been a while since I have posted. Rochelle does well in keeping ya'all up to date in our lives. I guess the biggest thing I have to write on is the fact that I am graduating this week, and that I got a new job last week. As momentous of an occasion this is, I really don't feel like it is that special. To be honest, I am rather embarrassed that I haven't graduated already. But I guess I was just enjoying my education... maybe a little too much. I think part of the reason I stayed in school so long was because I was determined to get married, and not so determined to graduate for a long time. And when I did (finally) get married, I finally looked at my schooling, and determined that it was time for me to be done. I have been going to school for the last 2 years straight. I am a wee bit tired. Ready for a break. So what am I going to do with my new found liberty? I haven't quite decided yet. I think there are a few things I'd like to do. I never really developed my piano playing skills like I'd like to. I've had one year of piano lessons, after which I quit because I didn't like it. But when I got into 8th or 9th grade, I started wishing that I knew a little bit more than I did. And so I went back to my old piano books, and taught myself how to play. I can play a little now. I'd like to be able to really play though. But I know that will take a fair bit of practice. I might be up for that. We'll see. I'd also like to give more time to my photography. I'm getting a new digital SLR camera, and am anxious to start learning the differences between film and digital, and how they affect the photos you take. I've taken a fair amount of photos for other people, and I love doing it. I have mostly done it charging nothing more than cost to those who ask me to take their picture, and I'm content to continue that way. I enjoy doing that service for friends. A few people have truly been grateful when they got their pictures. I'd take that kind of payment any day over dollars and cents. I like serving people in a meaningful way. It gives me "warm fuzzies". Another thing I might be working on is a little software program that creates ward directories. I have created one already, but I think it could use some major reworking so that it is a little easier to run. That could take some serious time too. Also our web page needs some updating. I have lots that I'd like to do that way. Oh, another thing I want to work on it cooking/baking. I love to make food. Largely because I love to eat it, but also because it is something that I can do for Rochelle. I'd like to start cooking and baking more. I really know very little about baking, especially breads. I'd like to do more. I think we will get a bread machine, so that will be a little less difficult, but all the same, there are lots of food recopies that I'd like to try. I'm hoping that I can make our recipe web site a little more useful for ourselves. I've also got a lot of reading that I'd like to do. Rochelle has a stack of books that she would like me to read, and I have another stack that I'd like to read.

Anyways, that's enough about that. I started my new job on Monday, and I really like the people who work there. They all seem to be very nice. They are very much a small company in every sense of the word. Things seem to be changing rapidly, and the CEO works in programming right along with a bunch of other developers. Everyone seems to be quite bright. They have a talented bunch of people working for them. I think I'll like working there. It should be fun.

Well, our home teachers should be here shortly, so I better be getting off of here. Have a good Sunday all.

~BJ

Well, I guess I'm past due on giving an update on our life... we have just been doing our normal routine (work, and school for BJ) for the most part. I helped throw a baby shower on Saturday for a girl in my ward. I have never done that before, and it was fun. We had it at our apartment, which worked out perfectly. On Friday, BJ and I went out to lunch with his co-workers, since it was his last day, and one other guy's last day as well.
BJ and I team teach a Sunday School class in our ward, and we are supposed to teach once a month, or every other week.... but we have taught 4 out of the past 5 weeks... which is fine, but unusual! A lot of people are moving out and/ or into our ward, so there aren't many teachers I guess. We are staying here (we are not especially fond of moving, and we like it here) for another year. I will try to put up some pictures of our apartment.
I have read some good books lately; the last one I read was Man's Search for Meaning by Victor Frankl. I think a lot of people had to read that one in school, but I never did... although I realized while I was reading it, that I had read part of it for a research project I did when I was a senior in high school. It was such an interesting, thought provoking book. I especially like what he says about trials/ suffering not being bad- they can give your life meaning, if you look at them the right way. He says that there are a lot of things that can give our lives meaning (not just suffering). My favorite quote from the book was a response to the people who said that they had nothing to expect from life any more, and therefore did not want to go on living (in the concentration camp): "What was really needed was a fundamental change in our attitude toward life. We had to learn ourselves and, furthermore, we had to teach the despairing men, that it did not really matter what we expected from life, but rather what life expected from us. We needed to stop asking about the meaning of life, and instead to think of ourselves as those who were being questioned by life- daily and hourly. Our answer must consist, not in talk and meditation, but in right action and in right conduct. Life ultimately means taking the responsibility to find the right answer to its problems and to fulfill the tasks which it constantly sets for each individual."
I have also read several other books these last couple weeks; a Louis Lamour western (a fluffy book), Complications (a book about how the medical profession is not an exact, but more of an approximate, evolving science- very interesting book), and the Holographic Universe (I'm not actually finished reading this one... it has a very interesting premise, but it has a lot of physics and abstract ideas in it, and that makes it slow going for me).
I am going to start interviewing nurses this week for the research I am helping with, so that should be interesting, and I am also planning on (finally!) starting to scrapbook all our wedding pictures! I also have a bunch of errands to run. Anyway, that makes for a busy week, which I like way better than not having much to do!
Below are the pictures of our apartment: our living room, our "dining area", and our kitchen.